Big is Beautiful Dammit

Note: when I reffer to "skiny bitchez", I'm not saying I have a problem with anyone skinny. I mean the skinny women who act like they're all that, and have an attitude about themselves... I love everybody, except the occasional asshole, so don't take offense if you're thin. It's only your problem if you're a bitch too.

It's a little sad to admit, but we (women), are on a lot of pressure about the way we look. Where only 1 to 5 % of women are considered to be "Model Material", the rest of us are competing to try to look the same and struggling to do just that. It's so frustrating, because guys will look at these "hot babes" and get some idea in their head that that's what a real woman's supposed to look like. So where does the average, chubby, real woman fit? Luckily not all men are shallow, and there are many who don't see it as an issue. But the real problem is how we feel about ourselves. Are we to give out, and pressure ourselves to be something we're not? Or can we be a little big and feel great in our skin without stressing out about what others think?

Guess what... BIG IS BEAUTIFUL DAMMIT!~ Girls don't need to be skinny bitchez with balloon tits to be sexy. I mean, I don't like when girls' ribs pop out... it makes me want to give them a bucket of fried chicken. I like curvy, real, normal women. Now there is a difference between big, and fat.

Chubby is acceptable, but severely overweight (and by that I mean that you have more than love handles and a couple of rolls), only means that you don't care about your health, and have some issues. I mean face it, we can all let ourselves go a little bit sometimes. But excessively is something to be very concerned about. I mean honestly, you can't feel good about yourself if you're carrying an extra hundred pounds around. It's about being healthy, and when you feel good inside, and outside, your sex appeal goes up.

Here are some REAL women, and who are very sexy even if they're not skinny or with fake boobs:

Beyonce Knowles : She's got nice curvy strong legs and ass , and is all natural beauty






And here are some randoms of curvy, real, beautiful, sexy women







Miss Teen UK 2008 : Chloe Marshall . TAKE THAT SKINNY BITCHEZ!!! hahahahaha About freakin time!



Queen Latifa



Marilyn Monroe



Here's ME! hahaha sorry for the lack of full body shots, I'll update as soon as I get one taken



I'm a size 16-18 right now. The biggest I've been was probably a 20, and that was before my pregnancy. I looked my absolute best as a size 14, and never had problems finding boyfriends. Right now, I'm just stuck on a "plateau" of mommy fat that seems to be stubborn to go away. I'm always at home with the baby, and working from home, so it's hard for me to find the place and time to go work out. So I go for walks at the mall (during winter time) , and I'm looking forward to the summer to go walk everywhere and go swimming. I'd like to get a Wii fit too, cuz it's fun and a good way to work out and get in shape. I just want to be able to keep up with my little man when he starts running around, without feeling like I'm running a marathon. haha

Despite my overweightness, I still feel great in my skin. You know why? Because I know I'm beautiful even if I have a fat ass. If anything, at least I have one, and it's something nice to grab (if you're reaching lol). Hurray for big booties! LOL

It's all about who you are inside. So don't feel pressure if you're not like a porn star. It's okay, because great personality brings you far in life. You won't need to result to porn to make money